F.Y.I/The 411/To catch you up/The Update

So as most of you know (and if you don't) my pregnancy of baby #3 was deemed nonviable. Meaning there are things wrong and I will not carry to term. I will eventually miscarry. And I did. I miscarried in early February. I am okay physically and emotionally. Haydan eventhough he is abroad knows everything. I did send him a red cross message and then he called a few days after I had my procedure. The procedure I am talking about is a D&C. I don't remember what thiose letters stand for but pretty much it's a proceedure to remove any tissue and whatever else that was left after the fetus had aborted itself. Hopefully we can have another baby in the fuure. I do still have plenty of child bearing years ahead of me.
Olivia was in a ballet class for a month or so. She loved it. She learned the basics of the basics. She will be starting kindergarten here in September. She and I are very excited. She will have to wear uniforms again just as she had to in her pre-school in California. The first day of school is September 8th. And if you didn't already know, James, Olivia's biological father, had twins with his wife in February. They were born 3 1/2 months early so they are and have been and will be in the NICU. So Olivias has two more sibblings(half siblings). James had a daughter and a son. His daughter's name is Anaviana (unusual but pretty) and his son's name is Lucas.
Alex is talking a mile a minute now a days. H e has learned so may new words. He repeats himself so much. That's the only irritating part. He is a fast learniner once it comes to learning his abc's and 123's and what not. On the other hand it seems he never learns his laesson on not to do something that hurt him again. He acts liike he has no fear of anything that is actually dangerous. He is afraid of the noise a lawn mower across the neighborhood makes or the hair dryer when I am drying my hair but he is not afraid of falling 20 ft off the banister and onto the first level stairs or out of a second story window.. He is going to give my mother-in-law a heart attack one of these days.
Anyway,here we are in the begining of may. We are coming up on Mother's day. Happy Mother's Day to my mother's and grandmothers. My birthday is the 15 of this month. I will be 23. I don't feel 23 though. I feel much older for a number of reasons. Man how time flies.
To those who have been asking ... no, we don't know yet if we are re-enlisting or getting out and settling. You'll know as soon as I know. So that's everything in a nut shell.

Number 3

Yes number 3. If you have guessed it correctly it means I am once again pregnant with child number 3. I am as of today 9 weeks and 3 days along. My due date is August 4th 2009. This baby and Alex will be about 30 months apart. No it was not planned. I actually was on the pill. SO SUPRISE!!! I am happy about it. It took me a day or two to get use to the idea. Haydan was not happy about it at first and I am still not sure how he feels about it. He has been so stuck on not having anymore children period.

We found out we were expecting on December 26th. Haydan flew back to California on December 29th to work before he delpoys. He deploys on January 9th and so far doesn't plan on being back till sometime in September. So he will miss the pregnancy and the birth. I am just glad that I am surrounded by family and friends. I have my support and hope that this pregnancy because of the support I have around won't be as hard as I am thinking it will be because my husband will miss the growth of the abay and finally the miracle of life being given to our child. Not sure if I want to find out what gender the baby is or if I am going to leave till the baby is born. We are prepared for either gender so it really doesn't matter if I find out or not. So wish me luck. When I get sonogram pictures I will get them up.